Intimacy Playshop
Intimacy is a skill that ONLY develops through practice!
When we first fall in love intimacy is easy and spontaneous. Trust you remember these moments!
Sadly, too many of us live as roommates with some benefits. Accept that said benefits are not deeply fulfilling. And drop much effort into creating a more vibrant intimacy with our partner.
We go to school for years to learn a craft or a profession and then take countless classes to gain new certifications and gain the current ones. We sometimes even change careers and accept that the learning is in hundreds if not thousands of hours.
Most of us long for deep intimacy much more than for our careers… BUT invest (at best) just a fraction of the time to learn and practice it.
Sooooo… what if you were to straighten your priorities and decide intimacy is worth the learning and the investing?
Our new Intimacy Playshop is a new way of learning that is actually fun, active, kinesthetic and practical (like we all learn!). It is based on the still avant-garde understanding that it is not psychology but presence, touch and playfulness that makes us better lovers and intimate partners.
INTIMACY IS TO BE PRACTICED
INTIMACY IS THE JOURNEY
(not the destination)
We invite you to join us to rewire your nervous system and learn to thrive in love. Yes, some striving is involved. But only some! We will re-ignite the curiosity and passion you experienced when you first met. We will practice the key competencies to being happy in love. And more importantly we will do so with wisdom and levity!
WHAT IS A “PLAYSHOP”?
It is a workshop… But more fun! We believe people learn intimacy best through playfulness. Liberating Love is no small feat. Our Playshop format makes it as enjoyable and personal as possible.
NOTE: we honor strict safety and privacy rules and have a policy of being fully dressed, with no kissing, no touch of erogenous zones, and no genital touch. We believe a strong Intimacy Playshop container is key to learning and will kick out any participant violating these principles.
WHAT WILL WE PRACTICE?
We could give you here a long enticing list. It is NOT the length of the list that counts, but that we go for the essentials, for what will truly transform your couple, for what you will not say “Oh it was a nice retreat!” but will practice purposely when you get back home!
Sooooo…What are we going to practice and play with?
Listening and attuning with empathy
Expressing emotions, wants, needs and boundaries so our partner fully hears us
Understanding needs: ours and our partner’s
Practicing responsiveness vs. reactivity
Celebrating vibrant Masculine strength and structure AND Feminine beauty and flow in ourselves and in our partner
WHY SIGN UP?
Do we really have to answer that question?!!!
Our Disney/porn culture only points to 1% of what is possible. This means signing up will give you insights into and access to:
100X the joy of being together
100X the capacity to transform conflict into play
100X the daylong connection with each other
100X the making each and every simple daily act of life an intentional act of foreplay
AND 100X the pleasure in your sacred intimacy garden
WHEN + WHERE?
We are inviting a select group to a proof-of-concept for this new and very exciting format. We will gather the afternoon of Saturday June 13th from 2-6pm in Boulder, CO. The venue will be announced upon registration.
This proof-of-concept is donation based. We invite you to make a small Venmo donation.
We intend this to transform into a quarterly intro Friday evening followed by a full-day Saturday of practice the next day.
A SPECIAL NOTE TO WOMEN
Men are not incapable of being attuned and connected lovers. Are you ready to drop that act and learn to ADMIRE them. Join us to learn and practice what actually creates a feminine invitation that is irresistible to a masculine being!
We live in a world in which, disastrously, women get devalued, objectified, taken for granted, and too often used. All of us (men and women) acquired many inhibitions as we grew up due to traumatic abuse and developmental trauma (what we needed but didn’t receive). By now you most likely have freed yourself of some or many.
This Intimacy Playshop is an invitation for you to learn to show up fully as a powerful woman in full ownership of your femininity, joy and turn on, knowing you are a gift he needs (even when he seems disconnected), who zealously (and generously) practices disinhibit-izing yourself and your man in the sacred intimacy cauldron of your relationship.
A SPECIAL NOTE TO MEN
Trying to understand women logically will only get you so far as women want to be FELT (and of course desired and adored). Are you ready to change paradigm in order to learn, and practice what actually creates a masculine invitation that is irresistible to a feminine being?
We live in a world in which, very sadly, men get punished for being men. This Intimacy Playshop is to invite you to show up fully as a powerful man who knows himself and is proud of his Masculine strength, who chooses intimacy when appropriate, who protects and provides for her real needs, who knows he is a gift she needs (even when she resists), and who leads his woman skillfully to ecstatic surrender in their sacred intimacy garden.
FOR SINGLES AND COUPLES
This practice is for couples. We also welcome singles with the understanding that we are not gender matching participants. We invite you to see this not as a downer as a core principle of intimacy is attunement. Learning to see the world from our partner’s perspective invites us to sharply grow attunement.
BYOD (Bring Your Own Date!) if you do not want that dreadful occurrence to happen!
